Thoughts on Love and Dating

In honor of Valentine's Day, I've decided to write about my thoughts on love and dating.

I never have had a good dating/romantic relationship experience.

I have heard far more dating and marriage horror stories than I have good ones.

I have heard of men who subscribe to the "100 mile rule," meaning that if you are 100 miles or more away from your significant other, it's not cheating.

I have heard of far too many men being unfaithful to their wives and girlfriends.

I have listened to too many men over the age of 30 express unbelievably immature attitudes about dating. Oh, excuse me, I should have said "hanging out."

For the past few years, I've spent some time thinking about whether or not I even want to be in the dating pool. I've even tried online dating...blech.

As of this Valentine's Day, I've decided a few things:
1. I am going to stop being bitter about my unfortunate dating luck.
2. I am going to express unreserved joy for those who have found true dating or married bliss.
3. I am officially declaring myself out of the dating pool. For me, the potential benefits just don't outweigh the potential risks.

And so, with a true heart, I wish you a Happy Valentine's Day. Share it with those you love. For me, that's going to be my parents, and I'm going to enjoy my time with them.